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Sacrament of mercy
How to go to confession
A simple, gentle guide for approaching the sacrament. This companion supports preparation, but your priest and parish remain your proper guide.
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Return to your saved examination report.
Open the report section to review marked prompts and notes saved only on this device. If you are unsure how to confess something, bring it simply and honestly to a priest.
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Step 1
Prepare with prayer
Ask the Holy Spirit for honesty, sorrow, and trust. Use an examination if it helps, but do not wait until you feel perfectly prepared.
Step 2
Go to your parish confession time
You may also contact a parish for an appointment, especially if you are returning after a long time or need more time.
Step 3
Begin simply
Tell the priest if you are unsure what to say. You can say that you need help making a good confession.
Step 4
Confess clearly
Name your sins as honestly and simply as you can. This guide does not label sins as mortal or venial; bring uncertainty to the priest.
Step 5
Receive counsel and penance
Listen for a practical next step. Ask for clarification if you do not understand the penance.
Step 6
Receive absolution and begin again
Trust the mercy of Christ. After confession, complete your penance and return to prayer with peace.